Mercedes Brabus

Chaff

I hear a lot of the expression 'wheat and chaff' that chaff seems to be an apt topic for this post.... In guy issues(i.e relationships), there's(or there are?) a whole lot of chaff(time wasters, opportunists, etc) floating around and quite unfortunately, they seem to land on our turfs a little too often. What are they like really? They're expert camouflagers (right word?), and beautiful liars(i'd go into details but dis sort of says it all).
Now, why am I saying all this? It's becos of a comment a friend of mine made...as friends, guys are FUUUUNNNN!!!! But as boyfriends(sigh!) chics have to put up with a lot of s***. A perfect example is d man dating(or claiming to date) someone i know(gossip :-p) he does nothing to show she means anything to him, waits for like a week, two or even more before resurfacing with flimsy excuses...of course one would scream 'chuck him out' and he will be too(if he's not out already), but the point I'm trying to make is that chaff seems to be in such abundance, they tend to outnumber the wheat...who by the time they surface, we tend to regard as chaff till after a while we realize, 'this just might be it'.. and it is becoming sooo depressing and discouraging encountering so much chaff and searching for(or waiting to be found by) the wheat...but, the wheat is out there, somewhere...and one woman's chaff is another's wheat..(lol). It's just a matter of time, patience and firmness in knowing what you DON'T want, and abiding by it................

A Tribute To Guys.......

Ok someone accused me of being a feminist which I admit I might be, but I decided to use my Christian mind to appreciate guys today.........now, 98% of my friends are guys and I must confess dat each and everyone of them have been fun all the way......
Guys are expert secret keepers(at d same time expert gossips!), have fantastic senses of humor, are correct dancers, give really good advice, always seem to have one or two money making ideas, seem to know where to get what at good prices(how do dey do it?), know where and where to hang out at what time, easily confide in us as we do in dem, are DEAD patient with their chics when it comes to tolerating mood swings, tantrums, occasional sulking etc(sorry chics)......and d list goes on and on.
Der's never a dull moment with guys(honestly)!
So this goes out to ALL my guy friends today.......big ups to y'all, keep up d good work;)
N.B might I add that this post is based solely on personal opinions and experiences OK????!!! So dont nobody go 'i disagree with you etc etc'.............
Anoda NB
I AM STILL A FEMINIST!!!!(hahahahahahaha).............

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